Seriously, i think that this kind of stuff need to take time cos u gotta know the person well enough or else once u r tgt u will suffer alot n in e end will break up. All gals want their rs to remain as long as possible cos they dun want to be hurt. Just as a reminder if guys want break make it obvious so that the gals can break with u first. Although u may complain but thats how i feel cos for girls they really break easily more than guys but then again its the BEST if the couples meet up n reason with each other then the rs may be saved.
I know it sux when singles see couples cos we'll be thinking ''argh, i want a bf/gf'' but isnt that a bit stupid? cos rs is determined by feelings of love/like for each other and not cos u just want to show off or smt. I know u wanna feel loved but arent u playing with the other party's feelings. Is like they give u wad u want but u never give back. Thats like epic failure.
Of course there are cases where i love u but u dun love me back, well if thats e case, try to jio them if all else fails, then u should just dump the thought cos its just one sided. There are always better ones out there waiting for someone to notice them so dun be stupid n say things like ''im never gonna love again'' cos we all know that its not possible, even within the week u may have found someone better , who knows, life is so unexpected.
Then of course there are ppl who change in order for their love one to notice n love them back. That again is a bit stupid. In a rs, both sides should love one another n not change them unless its like super bad habits but still, compromise and be happy with them.
Breakups are always the worst (Confessing + Breaking up is the hardest time in a rs), i know it hurts but get over it, once its over, its over. U cant put it back tgt n even when u manage to get back tgt, think about it, there will always be those scars that can never be removed but then there are always exceptions whereby breaking up n getting tgt again actually strengthen the rs cos both sides will finally know how much they meant to each other as do how couples get closer if they quarrel but too much is totally not good.
Oh ya, i finally refined wad my previous thoughts were about great guys:
They are either
~Dead
~Gays
~Taken (either got gf or like someone or just dun want to have a rs)
~Too young
And btw, there are no such thing as a perfect partner. Thats just an opinion. Cos we all know that we are faulty n think about it: if u r already not perfect, why go for someone perfect. Cos in the end, u wont find the right one n end up alone. Just choose base on how u feel n not on physical measures (e.g looks) although i must say i will see the looks too XD haha no one can deny they dun judge by looks too. Of course a perfect partner is found only by the way u look at ur partner cos we will think that he/she is perfect regardless of what others think. Therefore, all these(maybe) not impt:
~looks
~age
~race
~blah blah blah
but somehow, i doubt anyone will dare say they dun care about all these X)